When your Outcast Success Saboteur is strong you are usually quite independent and tend to keep yourself to yourself. You may have never really felt like you fitted in, but deep down you crave to feel accepted and like you belong somewhere. You have a deep fear of rejection and this subconsciously affects your sales and marketing and makes you ‘hide’ your true self from the world. Anything that involves being authentically seen or speaking out is especially difficult for you as it affects your sense of safety. You may find you can’t seem to scale your courses to bigger numbers. You keep yourself small as you believe nobody is interested in what you have to say and that ‘hiding’ by wearing a mask or being invisible entirely will keep you safe. Despite this, you have dreams of being more visible, speaking on stages, writing books and creating a huge ripple of change in the world.

There are 2 key business presentations of this Success Saboteur:

1. Fear of being seen (avoiding all visibility) and fears/limits around selling
2. Visible, but not visible as who you really are as it’s easier to be rejected for who you are not, than for who you really are.

Common Outcast Success Saboteur beliefs

• What if people gossip or laugh at me?
• Being invisible keeps me safe
• My opinions don’t matter
• I don’t have anything people want to hear
• What if I say something wrong/ embarrass myself?
• What if I can’t answer a question?
• It's not safe to be seen

Common Outcast Success Saboteur Feelings

• Feels her own voice or opinions are not important or not safe to express.
• Feels safer being quiet and ‘invisible’
• Being seen for who she really is, is not safe because there is a risk of harm or danger if they are not liked, judged or rejected in some way.
• Biggest fear is being rejected and having their ‘not enoughness’ triggered.
• Feel like there must be something wrong with them.

How the Outcast Success Saboteur Archetype™ shows up in self, personal relationships & business

• Deep visibility fears that show up as ‘hiding’ in business (not sharing their stories, not marketing, not sharing client results, not doing videos).
• Tend to reject others before they can be rejected themselves, especially in personal relationships and friendships.
• Can sometimes appear as a struggle with selling their own products and services or selling at all. 
• Avoid anything that could make them centre of attention
• If they have to be visible they will wear a mask of what others expect them to be rather than be their true self.
• Struggle to position themselves as a personal brand in business.
• Subconsciously sabotage your launches and keep your group programmes small because you fear larger groups/ feel safer in smaller groups - limits your capacity to hold more people
• ‘Vanilla’ Marketing - you water down your true opinions and voice to be more accepted by everyone. 

If you don’t heal this Success Saboteur

If you don’t heal this saboteur, sales, marketing and visibility can continue to feel like a struggle and your fears will stop us being visible in a way that converts to more sales and success. It will also block your ability to connect more deeply to your audience and convert leads into sales. Romantic relationships and friendships can be impacted too - often rejecting people before they have a chance to reject you.

Origin of Outcast Wound

The ‘Outcast’ Success Saboteur Archetype™ is activated as a Survival Strategy when you felt a) not safe to be seen and/or b) like you did not ‘fit in’ as a child, whether at home or in school. This could have been because you were bullied or moved schools a lot. It may have been that you felt like you didn’t truly belong in your family as you felt different to them. Perhaps you were intentionally excluded from your family by being treated as the ‘scapegoat’ or experienced or witnessed aggression or abuse in the family home. All these circumstances lead to the belief “I am not safe to be seen or safe to be me” and so you struggle to accept yourself for who you are and hide as a form of self protection. 

Your Biggest Gift Hiding Behind it: The Gift of Shining

You (yes YOU) are here to impact the world in a BIG way! You are here to SHINE and be SEEN on a huge level - as a writer, speaker, a thought leader or public figure. You are here to change the world through your words and communication in your own unique way. You are meant for stages, a global audience, New York Times Bestseller…Don’t let your Outcast stop you from fulfilling your purpose. There are so many people who are waiting for you to shine your light. 

  Next steps to transform this:

Mindset work just doesn't go deep enough. You need to uncover and heal the True Root Wounds of your 'Outcast' Success Saboteur and imprint INNER SAFETY & UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE on the 5 levels of Healing™: Mind, Heart, Energy Soul & Action. 

This healing allows you to unlock the untapped potential and hidden gifts behind the Outcast Success Saboteur. 

Things like:

• Show up as the visibility queen you are because you feel rejection-proof and fearless.
• Feel safe to be who you really are, share your opinions loudly and proudly and have your voice heard - people start to see you as a thought leader. 
• Increase your ripple effect by doing videos, presentations, talking on stages or writing that book that fear has held you back from (hello Bestselling author!)
• Confidently selling yourself and your services, sharing your results and ENJOYING selling to your audience (attracting WAY more clients and closing WAY more sales).
• Feel confident launching group programmes and using webinars or challenges to multiply your impact and income tenfold.
• Feeling safe to come out of the spiritual closet or really own those gifts and talents you have been hiding!
• Hitting your next financial income with ease because of all of the above!

The Imposter Success Saboteur Archetype™:

The ‘Imposter’ has achieved a degree of success in her life but she believes it’s down to luck, fluke, mistake or chance and does not feel successful internally. She doesn’t truly believe that she is as successful or intelligent as others believe her to be and may even fear being ‘found out’ as not good enough. She finds it difficult to trust her own decisions and intuition and can get stuck in a cycle of buying more certificates and courses because she doubts her capabilities and never feels like she knows enough (even though she does!). She is always looking to others for guidance. She doesn’t feel truly confident, more like she is putting on an act or pretence and often struggles with self doubt. 

The ‘Hustler’ Success Saboteur Archetype™:

The ‘hustler’ believes she has to really work hard in order to achieve the success she craves. It feels she’s trying so hard, people often comment how much and how hard she works but she feels her bank balance isn’t quite reflecting the effort. The thing is, even when she has a big month in her business or reaches a goal she’s never achieved before, she still isn’t satisfied and moves straight onto the next goal. Whenever she starts to see success in one area, it doesn’t seem to last long (hello feast and famine income cycle!) OR it comes at a sacrifice to success in another area of her life such as her health or relationships. She wants to be able to have it all, but is working so hard she is heading for burnout (or is already there). Her worth is highly based on her income earning ability and external achievements. She has some deep blocks around money, love and success that are holding her back from the success in all areas that she is really capable of.

The Overprotector Success Saboteur Archetype™:

If you have a strong ‘Overprotector’ Success Saboteur you crave more success but deep down also fear it is not safe in some way - this keeps you stuck, going around in circles, doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. It stops you taking the positive risks and action needed to create more success. Usually, there needs to be a big crisis point or drama for you to change something that isn’t working. You probably felt unsafe many times in childhood - home- school or both. Playing safe is keeping you small and unfulfilled and limiting your naturally BIG success potential. You have deep blocks around how you perceive success and how safe you are to be your naturally successful self.

When you heal all 5 of these Success Saboteurs on multiple levels you are able to really unlock that Revolutionary Woman within - that incredible magnetic version of you - so you can so you can receive and achieve more in love, life and business - without the sabotage.

THIS is Success Mastery.