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Overview of the ‘Hustler’ Success Saboteur Archetype

(Copyright Natasha Bray 2020)

You believe you have to work really hard in order to achieve the success you craves. People often comment how much and how hard you work but you feel your bank balance isn’t quite reflecting the effort. Even if you have a big month in your business or reach a goal you’ve never achieved before, you still aren’t satisfied and move straight onto the next goal. Whenever you start to see success in one area, it doesn’t seem to last long (hello feast and famine income cycle!) or it comes at a sacrifice to success in another area of your life such as your health or relationships. You want to be able to have it all, but are working so hard you are heading for burnout (or are already there). Your worth is highly based on your income earning ability and external achievements. You have some deep blocks around money, love and success that are holding you back from the success in all areas that you are really capable of.

There are 2 key business presentations of this Success Saboteur:

  1. Struggle to RECEIVE money & love no matter how hard you work at it 
  2. Struggle to KEEP the money you make (even if you already have a 6 or 7 figure business) - there is never much left at the end of each month. Or it comes at a sacrifice to love/self.

 Hustler Success Saboteur Beliefs

  • My clients can’t afford to pay higher prices
  • I would rather be happy than be rich
  • Rich people are greedy, bad or selfish
  • I can’t have love and money
  • I have to work really hard for money/ success
  • I don’t care about the money, I just want to make a difference & help people.
  • It’s not safe to have it all
  • Success/ Money/ Love isn’t available to me

Hustler Success Saboteur Feelings

  • Fears success and feels like something bad will happen if she has ‘too much’ even though deeply wants it
  • Doesn’t feel worthy or safe to have all forms of abundance in her life (love, health, money and success)
  • Fears that people will abandon her if she is ‘too successful’.
  • Feels guilty that she is somehow taking from others or outshining others if she has too much success or money.
  • Wants money but feels guilt, shame or embarrassment linked to it.
  • Feels that she cannot be successful and be a mother (big one)

How the Hustler shows up in self, personal relationships & business

  • Easily overworks and disconnects from loved ones
  • Appears to be stuck at a certain income level
  • Tends to follow her head more than her heart, very all or nothing approach
  • Is at a high risk of burnout or has had burnout in the past
  • Puts success and money before her own needs.
  • Works hard but also keeps herself small because she doesn’t want others to think she is ‘outshining’ them.
  • Experiences success but it is inconsistent and feels unattainable in all areas: e.g. feast/famine income cycle or will argue with a loved one if business is doing well, or her relationships are going well and so she will stop looking after her health.
  • Withdraws in the middle of a launch or doesn't follow up with sales and opportunities.
  • Feels that she cannot be successful and be a mother (big one!)

If you don’t heal this saboteur you won’t be able to sustain the success you already have or will end up burning out and feeling completely disillusioned with your business. You may eventually burn yourself (and your business) to the ground because you will be in constant fight or flight mode. You may find that you push away your partner or close friends because you are sabotaging anything good in your life. You may sabotage your body and neglect your health and even stop taking care of yourself entirely.

Origin of Hustler wound
The Hustler Success Saboteur Archetype™is activated as a Survival Strategy when you felt a) not worthy or b)not safe to be successful as a child.  This may have been due to experiences of wounding to your sense of worthiness and/or witnessing or experiencing others around you having negative consequences associated to success or money. For example, if others were always jealous of you or you were treated negatively due to your abilities then it would be safer to ‘dim your light’ and play small to avoid being treated that way again. Family stories and patterns linked to money and success form deep seated beliefs about what is available to you and how it is available to you when you grow up.

Your Biggest Gift Hiding Behind it: The Gift of Riches

If the Hustler is your BIGGEST saboteur, your gift is the Gift of Riches. WEALTH is part of your purpose - you are here to be RICH on all levels. You have the hidden gift of the Midas Touch. It's your biggest hurdle to overcome because it's part of your soul purpose. Wealth is meant to be fun and easy for you and it will be when you heal this saboteur. 

Next steps to transform this:

Mindset work just doesn't go deep enough. You need to uncover and heal the True Root Wounds of your 'Hustler' Saboteur and imprint WORTHINESS & SAFETY on the 5 levels of Healing™ required to unlock your Ultimate Uplevel: Mind, Heart, Soul Energy, Action. The more worthy and safe you feel, the more you expand your capacity to receive (and keep) more success and wealth in your life and business. 

This healing allows you to unlock the untapped potential and hidden gifts behind the Hustler Success Saboteur. 

 Things like:

  • Allowing yourself to receive more money with ease and flow. 
  • Being able to have amazing deeply connected relationships with your partner, children (and even parents) AND big income leaps in your business, without sabotage.
  • Consistent 5 figure, multi-5 figure or even 6 figure launches and months (goodbye feast and famine mode!)
  • Not getting ill or burning down your relationships every time you have a big launch or big financial windfall.
  • Being able to break through to your next income level with balance in your life.
  • Feel safe to fully step into the limitless success and wealth you are so worthy and deserving of.
  • Making thousands (or tens of thousands) in passive revenue streams each month
  • Look in your bank account and see your wealth building to the tens or hundreds of thousands level because you can finally hold onto money. 
Before you go, your Primary Saboteur is only one piece of the puzzle. There are 5 key Success Saboteur Archetypes™ stopping you from the success, wealth, impact and freedom you are destined for. Knowing and working on all 5 is essential to upleveling your beliefs, business and bank account!
Here is a short summary of the other 4 Success Saboteur Archetypes blocking you (remember you have all 5 in you!):

The Overgiver Success Saboteur Archetype™: 

The ‘Overgiver’ has a strong desire to take care of others and go above and beyond for them (possibly even rescue them), whether that is her clients, her family or her friends. Helping others feels like part of her life’s calling. Whilst this is an admirable quality to have, it can be at a cost to herself. She struggles to say ‘no’ even when something adds extra stress and strain to her and this can sometimes lead to underlying resentment and/or feelings of being taken advantage of. Her biggest struggle is knowing and believing she is enough, exactly as she is.

The Imposter Success Saboteur Archetype™:

The ‘Imposter’ has achieved a degree of success in her life but she believes it’s down to luck, fluke, mistake or chance and does not feel successful internally. She doesn’t truly believe that she is as successful or intelligent as others believe her to be and may even fear being ‘found out’ as not good enough. She finds it difficult to trust her own decisions and intuition and can get stuck in a cycle of buying more certificates and courses because she doubts her capabilities and never feels like she knows enough (even though she does!). She is always looking to others for guidance. She doesn’t feel truly confident, more like she is putting on an act or pretence and often struggles with self doubt. 

The Outcast Success Saboteur Archetype™:

The ‘Outcast’ is usually quite independent and tends to keep herself to herself. She usually feels like she is different or has never really felt like she fitted in, but deep down she craves to feel accepted and like she belongs somewhere. She has a deep fear of rejection and this makes her ‘hide’ her true self from the world. Anything that involves being seen or speaking out is especially difficult for her as it affects her sense of safety. She keeps herself small as she believes nobody is interested in what she has to say and that ‘hiding’ or being invisible will keep her safe somehow. Her biggest struggle is being visible. Despite this, she has dreams of being more visible, speaking on stages, writing books and creating a huge ripple of change in the world. 

The Overprotector Success Saboteur Archetype™:

If you have a strong ‘Overprotector’ Success Saboteur you crave more success but deep down also fear it is not safe in some way - this keeps you stuck, going around in circles, doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. It stops you taking the positive risks and action needed to create more success. Usually, there needs to be a big crisis point or drama for you to change something that isn’t working. You probably felt unsafe many times in childhood - home- school or both. Playing safe is keeping you small and unfulfilled and limiting your naturally BIG success potential. You have deep blocks around how you perceive success and how safe you are to be your naturally successful self.

When you heal all 5 of your Success Saboteur Archetypes on multiple levels you are able to really unlock that Revolutionary Woman within - that incredible magnetic leader inside - so you can receive and achieve more in love, life and business - without the sabotage.
THIS is Success Mastery.

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